okay at the end of the school year i am goin to a new school or college. I dont really know anyone there however i am fairly shy when meeting people. In my current school i wouldnt really say that i am friends with people who are more like me as i didnt have the courage to talk to them when i first met them (i was even more shy then).. my question is how can i start conversation with people without being creepy etc... what topics and any body language points that would show confidence would be good also.... thankyouStarting a new school need advice.. thankyou?
Join clubs--that way you have a reason to meet new people and something to talk about right away--You won't look desperate to meet people because you will be there for the club activities but of course you WILL meet people as a result of being a part of the club. I would say join 3-5 clubs--go the meetings and then pick 2-3 to stick with--
As for body language, you can't do a total make-over on yourself--be confident about who you are even if you are a bit shy--that's not a crime--accept yourself for who you are...
Go to the meetings and have an open mind--don't expect anything but be hopeful--And if you don't make good friends immediately keep going to the meetings--you eventually will...
Another thing to do is to get involved in community service projects through your school or in your new city--You will meet many people this way as well.
Spiritual or cultural groups--same thing.
Good Luck and enjoy your new experiences :)Starting a new school need advice.. thankyou?
It's easy. Just smile and say ';hi'; to 5 different people everyday. Soon you will be friendly, outgoing, smiling and the type of person everyone would like to call a friend. If given the opportunity you can follow it up by ';What did you do last weekend?'; Never ask a question that requires a yes or no answer.
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