I've just started seeing someone that I've known for a good while. I really like him, but am just so anxious all the time- feel really akward on the phone to him, feel like I talk rubbish when I'm around him etc.I know it's nerves and that if I could just fully relax everything would be okay-when I'm with him for a couple of hours I'm okay. We're at the very beginning of the relationship but already I can feel myself getting wound up about when he'll txt/phone me! Does anyone else feel like this? Any advice on how I can chill out??? I'm scared of putting him off with my akwardness!New relationship anxiety? Advice please?
What your feeling is a little high anxiety that will eventually go away after you get to know him a bit more, your tense and anxious around him merely because you are not in your comfort zone yet, just keep things simple and light, keep things in the here and now, in the moment so to speak, keeping things in the moment tends to lighten up the overwhelming feelings of high anticipation and can be very calming.New relationship anxiety? Advice please?
It sounds like you're just a little insecure, and this is a new relationship. Just try to be yourself, even if that's hard. Because he'll probably figure out who you are eventually, anyway. Try to get to know him better, and some of that anxiety will probably fall away. Make sure it has to do with you, and not him. Is he overly critical of anything? Just be careful and be sure you're being treated right.
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