Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Ex boyfriend's new girlfriend need some advice please?

I dated this guy for ten months I loved him and I still do but he makes things so hard. He left me to go out with this other girl who is two years older than me and she graduated when I was a freshmen. Anyway I tried to be her friend but she rub the fact that she got my ex in my face. I want to be friends with my ex because part of me will always love him and I would like to be friends with his new girlfriend but I really don't know if i can or how to start. I need some advice please?Ex boyfriend's new girlfriend need some advice please?
I find it very hard to be friends with an ex that you care so much about. I was with a guy for a year and a 1/2. He then cheated on me and went out with me so called ';best friend'; needless to say I don't talk to her any more.





I try to talk to him as friends when ever I see him... but its harder then you think.





Everytime I see my ex my eyes start to water. When I talk to him I start thinking about how many good times we had together.





If you think you can be friends with him without putting your self in a state that makes you go insane and sad then I would ask him if he wants to go to lunch or something.





If you still have random thoughts of you and him together, then I would hold off for a little bit.





This is a very tough situation for you. (I feel terrible for you.)





I wish you best of luck though with whatever you decide is best for you.Ex boyfriend's new girlfriend need some advice please?
Get some self respect and move on! You will never be their friends!
Why! is it so important to be friends with these individual's sounds like they've moved on maybe you should do the same.
if he is in love with some girl that just rubs sstuff in yo face, den girl.... jus leave him. don go all trippin on sumtin that wont go with you.
just a new bf and get over it u love him but if he loved u he would talk 2 u about it So get a new new bf that loves u and some one u love and u will so so so fell butter and he will want u back and u can say no! so get OVER IT
need to put that behind you and move on. Ignore them
i wouldn't even bother trying to be her friend. she's just going to be rude about it. and as for being his friend, you have to see if he wants that too, or even that won't work out.
It's a difficult situation, especially since you still have feelings for him. Although she is older than you, she sounds very immature. Just keep some distance from both of them for now. Try and find something else to occupy your mind, whether it's a hobby or a new guy. Eventually, both your ex and his new girlfriend should grow up (at least a little bit) and while it would be awkward to be best friends with them, at least the three of you will be on good terms.





Good luck.
it isnt going to work,,especially as you still love him,,his girlfriend wont want you around and that is her right,,you and he didnt work out but they might,,leave them be and if they split up it wont be put on your shoulders and then you can see if he and you can be friends.
I don't think you should really try to be friends with either of them. I think that is your way of hanging on to him. That's not a good thing at all. You should try to move on and stop thinking of him. I know it is hard but trust me it is possible and once you do your life will probually better.

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